Below is a link to a television news interview with Dr's John and Julie Gottman - "relationship gurus" about affairs and betrayal. While kept short for a tv slot, they share some of their insights into the impact of betrayal in a relationship. A point that stood out for me is John Gottman talking about what they have learnt from couples who haven't had and affair - loyal couples - they cherish one another, they don't leave one another in pain, "when you hurt the world stops and I listen". Loyal couples focus on being grateful for what they have rather than resentment for what is not there.
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