About

“There is a crack, a crack in everything. It’s how the light gets in.” Leonard Cohen Finding out about your partner’s affair is one of the most devastating events in a person’s life.  Everything you as a couple held as true has been destroyed with the revelation or discovery and it seems life as you know it will never be the same. Welcome to Move Beyond the Affair.  Here you will find the hope that you need to know that you too can get to a place of peace and happiness.  Whether you are the one who had the affair or the one who has been betrayed there will be something here for you. I write this blog from the perspective of more than 5 years since my husband told me about his affair.  Already a trained social worker, for the past 3 years I have drawn on my personal and professional experience to help couples rebuild themselves and their relationships after an affair and individuals recover when the relationship has not lasted.  My clients say “I walk the talk”. I weave my own experience with the academic and other literature and professional knowledge to bring you my story, my perspective on the healing journey and tools to rebuild a conscious life and relationship . I look forward to connecting with you as you move through your own recovery journey.

“There is a crack, a crack in everything. It’s how the light gets in.” Leonard Cohen

Finding out about your partner’s affair is one of the most devastating events in a person’s life.  Everything you as a couple held as true has been destroyed with the revelation or discovery and it seems life as you know it will never be the same.

Welcome to Move Beyond the Affair.  Here you will find the hope that you need to know that you too can get to a place of peace and happiness.  Whether you are the one who had the affair or the one who has been betrayed there will be something here for you.

I write this blog from the perspective of more than 5 years since my husband told me about his affair.  Already a trained social worker, for the past 3 years I have drawn on my personal and professional experience to help couples rebuild themselves and their relationships after an affair and individuals recover when the relationship has not lasted.  My clients say “I walk the talk”.

I weave my own experience with the academic and other literature and professional knowledge to bring you my story, my perspective on the healing journey and tools to rebuild a conscious life and relationship .

I look forward to connecting with you as you move through your own recovery journey.